our feelings. our affections.

this is just one of the few observations i have made. shallow people in the society tend to like, or perhaps infatuate, someone due to looks. people ,with depth, like someone not solely based on their looks, but also their personality traits. that would be good, but recently, i feel that there is another aspect that people tend to miss out on. this would be generalisation of their personalities. i strongly urge couples to choose carefully, and look upon your partner on a broader & wider scope. people in the society nowadays treat their partners with a lot affection and love, however, they treat others in the society like dirt and rags. what seem to you may be, "aww, he's so romantic", "he's so responsible". however, on the flipside, he might not be that ideal. thus, one suggestion would be to enter a phase of observation without bias, only through this would one attain much better and more accurate judgement of the other party.

personally, i've somewhat a hierachy for my social circle. i do admit that i don't treat all my friends with the equal attention and time span. however, what i do admit is that, i give every single one of them an adequate and reasonable amount of respect that deserve, which everyone should do the same. no one should be looked down on and despised. everyone deserves a second chance to turn a new leaf. what we can do is to help and salvage the potential friendship, by offering a helping and a lending a shoulder whenever possible. i believe only through such a mentality and philosophy will the world take a giant step towards world peace.